We're sorry to hear that you’re having a rough go of it, dude. You have a couple of options. If you want to remove your locks, you can get yourself an ER KIT and start over using the How To Dread Tutorial, or you can try to maintain your locks. If you can pull apart those dreads right down to the scalp again, you have a decent shot at reclaiming your dreads. You’ll want to palmroll often, paying special attention to keeping the roots separate. As for the “stuff”, we recommend washing your scalp once a week. That’s enough for most folks to keep the itchies at bay and keep your smelling sweet. If you’re still experiencing buildup, try a homemade vinegar rinse. Works like a charm!